Problem: Going through a Divorce
- Successful Medical Professional
- 1 child after years of IVF
- Grew up first Generation American
- Mistakes were and are not allowed growing up or now
- Now, navigating a divorce mid-40s and never managed money before
- Paralyzed to make a money mistake so not making any decisions instead waiting for others to do it.
Solution: Money Mindset Makeover
The first 3 sessions of 90 minutes were uncovering her personal relationship with money and fears based on her background, culture, and experiences. Here are five powerful outcomes: 1. Reclaimed Her Power Through Awareness and ControlShe shifted from feeling powerless in her divorce to identifying exactly what she can control—her actions, thoughts, and responses. This mindset reframe allowed her to stop internalizing his financial gaslighting and begin anchoring her own narrative.
2. Developed Tools to Quiet the Internal and External Noise
By learning to physically push away mental noise, label thoughts as True or False, and use visual techniques, she built a toolkit to reduce emotional overwhelm and refocus on what matters.
3. Redefined Her Definition of Security
She moved from vague fear to a clear, actionable definition of security: freedom from fear, anxiety, danger, and doubt. With that clarity, she began to make choices (like investing and debt awareness) rooted in long-term peace instead of short-term panic.
4. Grew Financial Literacy and Confidence
Through visual breakdowns of compound interest and credit card debt, she gained the financial education that had been withheld from her in the past. She went from being kept in the dark to confidently understanding how to build her wealth independently and how to reach out to the right people for support.
5. Created a Clear, Empowering Vision for Her Future
Instead of feeling adrift in the transition, she anchored herself with a 2030 vision—financially free, loving relationships, a thriving child, a home that feels safe, and a successful business. She is now designing her life with intention and hope, not fear.
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Own Your Relationship with Money – Start Today with Erika
The money patterns you learned long ago don’t have to define your future.
It’s time to break free from limiting beliefs and rewrite your financial story.
You deserve a healthier, more empowered relationship with money.
